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I am beginning to believe that all those stories about true love are as much fantasies and hard to find as the Loch Ness Monster and Bigfoot. It seems if you have a big heart that you want to share with someone, you end up finding ones who just want to take that heart and use it for what they want and then stomp it beyond recognition. So, I ask again, does true love exist, heck, let's take it down a notch. does love exist?? I know I am a great girl who has a lot to offer the right guy. A great sense of humor, the desire to learn new things, to always try anything at least once before saying I don't like it, the ability to make someone feel as special as they are, a great smile and pretty great eyes. But all of that doesn't come in a perfect package, it comes in one that is flawed, as most of us are, only it's hard to find anyone who accepts those flaws as part of what makes someone who they are. Sure, attraction has to be there, but sometimes, chances need to be taken and most people are afraid to do that, thereby possibly missing out on one of the most exceptional people they could ever meet.
With all that said, about me. I am a DWF, 39, and the mother of 2 boys who I do have custody of and who I love more than I could ever possibly convey in words, so we are a package deal. I am also a plus-sized girl, but am darn cute and amazingly funny and witty and all those things that make a great personality. I have been hurt enough in the past to know how not to treat someone and I just want someone who I know cares about me as much as I care about them - who I can snuggle up on the couch with and watch a movie, read a book, whatever - to enjoy comfortable silences with as well as talk all night long with about anything and everything. Someone who is willing to watch a movie that they wouldn't ordinarily watch just because they know I want to, as I would do the same for them.
Now, as to what I am hoping for. a single, white male, and by single I just mean not married, attached, or whatever. Age is not of any importance, though I would prefer to stay close to my age, and close is a relative term. :) If you have , great, I don't mind that at all, seeing as I do have my own. I am not looking for FWB, or NSA, I am hoping to find someone I can make a life with, to grow old with, to share all the love I have inside with. Height is not entirely important either, though I am 5'5" and kind of like taller men, they make you feel so safe and taken care of when they wrap their arms around you. Most importantly, I am hoping for someone with as much love to give to that special someone as I have to give and who can prove to me that love does exist, true love that is.
I know that CL is not supposed to be "the" place to go to try to find "the one", but I've tried so many other places, why not try one more time - it could be the one that finally works!! Again, I am not looking for discrete romps, or FWB or anything closetly related to either of those, I am hoping to find a LTR with a man I see as perfect and who sees me the same way. If you have been in search of someone as I have, then please reply and a pic would be greatly appreciated. If you are in search of someone you can "score" with, please move along, but maybe send a pic anyway, 'cuz looking at a hot guy never goes out of style! :) JUST KIDDING!!! I hope the right guy is out there somewhere - I've been hoping that for a while, but I am not prepared to give up yet!!
Take care & God bless!!
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