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Friends tell me "On Saturday nights when they're sitting around drinking wine together, so many women are talking about why they can't find . . .YOU!" Single white male, 38, seeking an honest, caring woman... Admittedly we are all somewhat selective, but I think there's more to it than that. It's just hard to date when you're a busy professional who is also raising . Not only is it much harder to make the time to get out and meet people while upholding extreme levels of responsibilities and commitments, but dating and getting to know someone is just more complicated too. You have a lot more to lose in this stage of life and it takes some time to learn just who out there you can really trust. Having loved and lost is par for the course for the 30-something dating pool and we all want to forego making some of the same mistakes we've made in the past. . . Like I said, it's complicated these days. Nevertheless, I do have the time to type up a personals ad and find out just whose curiosity it piques, so here goes. . . A little about me: I am a strong and driven man, divorced for 6 years now and raising two on my own. That makes me very independent. . . .No more about how men can't cook or clean, don't take out the garbage, don't take care of their own , act like themselves, so on and so forth. I take care of business. A college graduate from a quality private and employed by a large, stable organization for 12 years now, I enjoy a stable income and a fair amount of freedom in my job. . . .Eliminates the grumblings I've seen on dating sites about having to support a deadbeat boyfriend who can't hold a job, blah blah blah. I have my own house on a few acres in the clean country air, a couple of automobiles, and whatever else I need day today. I don't need yours. Conversely, I am not looking for someone to support either. We're all are very conscious and some even overly self-conscious of our own independence. I am not a caveman who seeks to you over the head with a club and drag you in to my for life. No, I don't mind helping people out, but I have two of my own who I intend to raise to be as independent as I am myself. I am not seeking a 50's house wife as a role model for them. I am active and reasonably fit, though I am no , gym rat or marathon runner. Over the last few years I've developed a huge interest in learning to be more self-sufficient. Essentially, I have traded in a non-sustainable suburban lifestyle for a more rural one where I spend a lot of time working outdoors. Whether it's planting vegetables, building something useful or taking care of , I'm out and about working. . . .This should ease the minds of you who are so tired of that "Lazy man who just sits around watching TV or playing video ". I am NOT that guy. If I'm not working around the house, I'm out doing something. Now. . . A little about you: You are a single woman in your 30s and can relate to what I've written above. You have meaningful relationships with family and longtime relationships with friends. You are not obese, are not a smoker and are not an addict. You do not hide behind a wall of makeup or material things. You love nature, love travel, love to see and experience new things. You are passionate about something in your life and pursue your passions with . You appreciate intimacy; both and emotional. You are compassionate and caring, and appreciate the compassionate, caring side of a man. You also appreciate the dominant, side of a man, and know the value of a deep, meaningful kiss. . . .Now if you have read all of this, I think you owe it to yourself to take a chance and drop me a line. When you do, please include a recent and put your favorite movie in the subject line so that I know you're not spam. =D Be aware, that I AM real, I AM going to want to hear about you, and I AM going to want to see of who I am talking to. And if we hit it off, I AM going to want to meet you at some point. Thank you for reading!
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